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A Garden of Love & Healing Living Tributes to Those We Have
Loved and Lost
by Marsha Olson, MA
Gardens that Heal, Honor and Remember
Nancy Lockett has a Japanese magnolia planted in
honor of her beautiful daughter a lover of flowers, of
gardens, of beauty. Lockett says, She always laughed at me
for being repeatedly overjoyed at the first magnolia blooms.
Locketts is one of several dozen gardens
featured in the new book A Garden of Love and Healing: Living Tributes
to Those We Have Loved and Lost (Fairview Press, $18.95). The book was
written by Marsha Olson, a Lyons, Colorado therapist and avid gardener,
who long ago recognized the therapeutic effects gardening can have for
the grieving soul. Gardens are perfect vehicles for connecting us
with the natural spirit of rebirth and re-growth, while providing a
beautiful physical reminder of those who are no longer with us.
A Garden of Love and Healing shows us how to find
healing in the natural world by creating our own garden memorial. Olson
reveals how a garden, created in memory of our loved one, becomes a
living, healing sanctuary helping to transform the pain of loss into the
peace of acceptance.
The book includes touching anecdotes from gardeners
around the country, along with creative ideas for planting your own
living tribute. It provides ideas and layouts for various thematic
gardens, including a patriotic tribute to the victims of 9/11. Also
included are lists of symbolic plants and flowers, and sources for
garden accessories such as stepping-stones, statuary, and personalized
plaques. There are even tips for planting a commemorative tree or
setting up other types of living tributes, such as wildlife feeders or
herb patches to honor a loved ones passions or hobbies.
Jan Weber shares in the book how a beautiful garden,
filled with statuary, many from friends, grew from the memory of their
beloved young son, Mark. Jan says, Each time we enter Markies
garden we are reminded of Markie and all the other wonderful people God
has sent into out lives.
Nancy Lockett tells about holding a community garden
tour in her daughters memory with plants being donated to sell for
the benefit. I feel all those plants now beautifying our town are
another part of her legacy.
Olson adds And that is what this is all about:
honoring the legacy of these beautiful souls who have graced our lives.
145 pages, April 2002, Fairview Press
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